Why YOU need to deactivate your Facebook NOW
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People have been accustomed to oversharing -
bombarding other people's newsfeed with the most mundane of posts. They have
been living the saying that if there are no pictures then it did not happen.
But they tend to generate a plethora of images which can be put together to form
a collage - they tend to overdo it to an alarming extent.
People have a way of documenting everything that
happens in their life. From the moment they wake up until they sleep, the
smallest details are always included on their daily updates. They would never
forget to inform you of their ‘healthy’ breakfasts and choices making you
regret the lechong paksiw you devoured before going to work earlier. They also
would never fail updating you of their whereabouts specially that flight they
had to Japan the other day with their 121 hashtags and their living-the-jetsetter-life
sort of captions.
Some people are taking selfies more often that if
you visit their timeline and scroll down through their vanity shots it will be
a stop-motion video.
People have become attention-seekers - anticipating
likes on their latest profile pictures and videos. Some will go beyond by
asking you to like or share their posts wanting them to go viral. Others are
comforted by posting their rants, problems, and even political insights online
- explaining that posting these is an emotional outlet for them. I mean, I don’t
have anything against people venting out on facebook, but doing it on a regular
basis is really just irritating and unreasonable. Not everyone wants to know everything
you’re going through. Because likes and reactions will never solve any problem.
Talk to a real person. That would be more helpful.
People have been so engrossed with social media
that they focus more on the contents of their timeline rather than what is
happening in their real life.
They miss out on things that are more worthy of
their time and show people how perfect their life is.
They pose with their cool OOTDS but are
uncomfortable to even walk a meter with their high heels.
They pose with all smiles from ear to ear after a
concert but they were really tired from holding their phones to record the
event forgetting to experience life as it unfolded.
They instragram their food while forgetting to
enjoy the gastronomic experience and the fellowship with their friends. Because
why not? Their friends are doing the same exact thing.
They live-tweet everything and miss living in the
moment.
All of these observations led me to deactivate my
facebook account for a duration of time. I tried disconnecting for 7 days. It
was therapeutic. And then I continued for 30 more days. It was an eye-opener of
an experience. I went back to facebook with a fresh perspective of what social
media is and isn’t.
The problem lies with having to prove you live a
luxurious and perfect life on social media when in reality your life is as flawed and imperfect as the next person. No one is perfect therefore no one has a perfect life.
Life is
too short to put on a show especially if it's your life we're talking about.
Life is meant to be lived. We need to live in the moment - not as an spectator but
as the main actor of our "story”. We don’t need to put on a show just to please
everybody and get their attention. Our life is ours to live. Not everyone needs
to be a part of it – only a few ones.
We need to cherish every moment we are given and
every people we share our lives with – our family, friends, and loved ones.
If more people would only realize what I learned
from my facebook hiatus, life for them will be much simpler. And if they’d come
up to that realization and act upon it with a positive mindset they’d be focusing
more on what really matters to them. They’d be living a life worth living,
remembering and reliving.
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